Nice Dudes Get More Dates
Your first date with a girl you really like can be nerve-racking. Mustering enough courage to come up to her and ask her out (which wouldn’t take you more than five minutes, really) is hard enough. But what if you have a whole night to converse? How do you foolproof your first date?
Well, you can start by making improvements on your communication skill. Be watchful on body language. Remember that signals are sometimes clearer than words. Try to establish a rapport with your date right on the first meeting. But since this isn’t always very easy (unless you are extremely charismatic), try to at least connect with your date by keeping the discussion light and spontaneous.
When talking to her, maintain eye contact. Constant gazing around the room could make you look distracted, inattentive, or worse, bored. Also, as a rule, never ogle at other women during your date. The objective of the night is to get to know her more. This is your chance (which can be your last, mind you), so pay close attention.
Now, if you want to get her to talk some more, or to warm up to you, try asking open-ended questions. Questions starting with ‘what’ and ‘how’ are more likely to encourage conversation as compared to yes-no questions. And while she shares some information about herself, listen attentively. Every good conversationalist is a good listener as well.
When choosing topics to talk about, settle for universal topics like music or movies. Everyone has a say on these things. Ask her what she’s currently listening to, or which movie is her favorite. Who knows? You might be interested in the same things?
Another good topic would be hobbies. After all, hobbies are always a part of any getting-to-know-you conversation. Ask her how she spends her spare time. Is she into traveling? Photography? Cooking? Whatever her inclinations are, you’ll almost always find a common interest.
Talk about pets, if she has one. People tend to get really animated when talking about pets, so this one way to get her to talk more and put her at ease. If she doesn’t have one, ask why. This way, you’ll be able to keep the conversation smooth-flowing.
Good conversation often makes for an enjoyable date night. And if both of you are lucky enough to discover a connection just through conversation, then fate might just make her a more permanent part of your life.
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